We're Eloping!
Jessica Detro
&
Robert Barend
#BecomingTheBarends
Our journey together began on a Thursday afternoon in August 2021, with a simple lunch date. By the end of the meal, Rob was already asking for a second date—and Jess didn’t hesitate for a second… Yes!
As the months passed, we shared countless moments—homemade waffles, boat rides, paint wars, and even braving the freezing cold to cheer on the Buffalo Bills. We quickly realized that no matter what life threw our way, we were ready to ride this rollercoaster together.
On our third anniversary, August 29, 2024, we took a day trip to Boldt & Singer Castle. Despite the cold and wind, we explored every corner of the stunning property. After completing our tour, we found ourselves in the gardens near the fountains, the perfect spot for Rob to ask Jess the most important question of all. And, once again, the answer was a resounding “Yes!”
We are beyond excited to begin this next chapter as husband and wife, and we’ll be celebrating in Ocho Rios, Jamaica, with two of our closest friends on April 16, 2025.
When we return, we can’t wait to share our joy with all of you at a celebration of our love and future together!
Our Destination
Sandals Ochi
This new all-inclusive resort has a hot new beach club, 11 bars - including the Caribbean's first speakeasy - and 16 totally on-trend restaurants. It's exciting and it's happening - but only when you want it to be. Because the other side of Sandals Ochi Beach Resort offers unsurpassed privacy when you want a more serene escape. A true Garden of Eden encompassing over 100 acres, this resort is so vast and lush that, no matter where you find yourself, you'll always feel as if there's plenty of space for just the two of you. All the things that make Jamaica such a uniquely spectacular destination are at the heart of Sandals Ochi.